Over the years, I’ve worked with thousands of couples and a statement that I’ve heard over and over in my couples therapy office is when one partner turns to the other and says, “You are not the person I married.” What should you do if you feel...
One particular problem I see being played out in my office over and over again is when a couple gets into a fight about something that happened in the past because they don’t remember it the same way. The biggest mistake people make in that situation is that they are...
Couples often ask me, “What is the secret to creating a lasting relationship?” The answer is learning to create a relationship that’s based on mutuality. So, today I’m going to talk to you about what mutuality is, why you need it, and what the barriers are to creating...
I’ve worked with many couples who have decided to divorce and a question I am constantly asked is, “What do we do now?” When couples realize that they have reached the point of divorce, they often feel paralyzed, uncertain about how to take the first step,...
Over the years, I’ve provided alternative relationship therapy to many couples. These couples were either already practicing polyamory, or were very interested in trying it. The question that I continue to hear over and over is, “How is this going to...
